So here’s what you really want to know. How will having a baby change things? The truth is, it changes everything. Some of the changes you will barely notice. Some, like trips to the store with cranky kids, will slap you in the face every time.

You will never appreciate silence and solitude as much as you will while being a parent. But, as a parent, your whole life’s purpose has just changed. Forever.

While I cannot possibly list them all, this last post in my 3 part series, explores the 3 big ways that your life will change after baby.  First up, is the one at the top of every man’s mind.  SEX.

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The first few days with a new baby are like none other. All of a sudden, this tiny person has been thrust into your arms and sent home with you. Even if this is not your first child, your world is still turned upside down. Those first few days are the beginning of finding your new normal.

The good thing is, as difficult as it all sounds, those first few days are also amazing. You have been introduced to a love beyond what you ever felt possible. That makes up for everything else.

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If you are reading this you are most likely a 1st time Dad or seasoned father looking for a refresher course. Maybe you’re a well intentioned baby Mama, pinning stuff for Daddy to read. Either way, you’re all here for the same reason. Soon(ish) you will be having a baby.

People tell you lots of stuff about having babies. Most of it is reminiscent of Hallmark commercials. People have a way of instantly forgetting the truth about delivery and the hospital. I’m here to tell you…It ain’t all cuddles and cuteness. There is a lot you may find yourself un-prepared for.

Forget what to expect. Here are 3 things you may NOT expect about the birth of your baby.

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